I have had it- I am talked out- but can not leave?

turn off the tv, standing naked, tell him to pay attention or you will find someone who will. Sometimes men need it spelled out for them. When you got married, somewhere in the vows it was probably said that he would cherish you, support you, love you, and take care of you. If he won't spend time with you then some of vows are not being met, even if there is no cheating going on. Just being at the house when you are there is not spending time with you if all he's doing is watching tv. you are not asking too much! good luck!